After three failed attempts, I finally made a yummy batch of kimchi. There are so many recipes on the web, and such variety of ingredients and method. Finally, though, with these instructions that my friend gave me, I got it right.
http://www.traditionaltx.us/Heidi's%20kimchi%20recipe.pdf
What I liked about this recipe is that there are pictures. And the author encourages a lot of flexibility in the spices that you add. For example, I cut out the hot spices and garlic and focused more on the ginger. I also switched out the Napa cabbage for basic cabbage, because in my previous batches, the Napa went too limp. It was probably my fault, but even so, I had much better luck with the regular cabbage, and plus it's cheaper!
Kimchi is addictive, in case you've never had any. Being fermented, it smells a little weird. However, onnce you've had even just a little bit, you just want more! You feel good after you eat it. Happy tummy!